<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247</id><updated>2012-02-16T17:57:59.556-08:00</updated><category term='education'/><category term='practice model'/><category term='tools'/><category term='judgement'/><category term='path'/><category term='system of care'/><category term='breathing'/><category term='bedford'/><category term='ray ratke'/><category term='transformation'/><category term='change'/><category term='social services'/><category term='behavioral health'/><category term='service plan'/><category term='hokie'/><category term='leadership'/><category term='hills'/><category term='form'/><category term='toolbox'/><category term='motivation'/><category term='special education'/><category term='virginia'/><category term='energy'/><category term='running'/><category term='family services'/><category term='human service'/><category term='strength'/><category term='insights'/><category term='pace'/><category term='juvenile justice'/><category term='cultural competence'/><category term='clients'/><category term='football'/><category term='training'/><title type='text'>twochairblogs</title><subtitle type='html'>conversations from the world of human services brought to you by Amanda Noell Stanley of twochairsolutions.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-853790323421515463</id><published>2010-12-20T18:49:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-20T18:53:15.134-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Essential Ingredients</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="font-family:'Microsoft Sans Serif';font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:15px;"&gt; &lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="font-family:'Microsoft Sans Serif';font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;I have enjoyed cooking and baking since I was a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Before there were multiple channels on television dedicated to food, I was in the kitchen with lots of tiny bowls filled with ingredients.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;This year I have baked a lot of bread and cookies and tried out new recipes for my family and friends.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Each time I make a recipe, I play with it a little bit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;It doesn’t take long to figure out which of the ingredients and processes are “essential” and which can be adjusted to suit my tastes or the ingredients available to me in my pantry.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Just today I was reading one of my favorite cookbooks about breadmaking.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;I’ve tried to occasionally test a new bread recipe every few weeks or so.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Today I was perusing the text trying to find the next bread I’ll try and noticed, as I have before, a pattern: bread has its own essential ingredients that make it work on a chemical level, that makes bread, well, bread.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;There’s a leavener, a sweetener, sometimes a fat, and something to provide the body.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Then there’s extras—you can add ingredients to give it a more savory or sweet flavor.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;You can make the bread richer by adding egg.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;You can take the fat out of it and make it more lean.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;You can use whole wheat flour and flaxseed to improve its nutritional value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Sweeten it with molasses instead of sugar or add a bit of buttermilk to make it more tender. You see?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;If I want to make a loaf of bread, I’ll almost always use flour, water, yeast, and salt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;But after that it’s up to me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Essential ingredients should define structure, purpose, identity. Nothing more and nothing less.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;    &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;They should not be the place we stop but the place from which our creative decisions are made.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;In human service professions, particularly complex programs like CSA, child welfare, or community&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;mental health programs, we often struggle to understand the difference between what’s essential and what is left to our taste or discretion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;In my consulting work I see folks grapple with ‘essential ingredients’ kinds of questions:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;“When we’re implementing family engagement, which elements of it are critical and which ones can we customize to fit our local culture or individual families?” Or, when starting a new program, an agency might ask, “what parts of this do we make policy—mandatory—and which parts do we leave to the discretion of our front-line workers?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Whether you’re in a position to make rules or follow them (and my guess is most of you do both in your work), how do you decide what’s essential?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;How do you distinguish between those things that make the program what it is and the parts that just make it work best for a particular time or place or culture?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;What happens when you make the wrong things essential or the non-essential things seem imperative?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;In cooking and baking, confusing these two things leads to poor-tasting, often inedible items.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;The beauty of the essentials is in their structure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;The beauty of the flavor is its individuality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;How have you mastered this chemistry in your work? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="border:none;border-bottom:solid windowtext 1.5pt;padding:0in 0in 1.0pt 0in"&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-853790323421515463?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/853790323421515463/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/12/essential-ingredients.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/853790323421515463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/853790323421515463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/12/essential-ingredients.html' title='Essential Ingredients'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-7745369391176295534</id><published>2010-08-05T11:51:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-05T13:58:09.698-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ray ratke'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='juvenile justice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='practice model'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='behavioral health'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='special education'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family services'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='virginia'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transformation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social services'/><title type='text'>Guest Blogger, Ray Ratke: Is Transformation Over?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;It's been months since you've heard from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://twochairsolutions.com/"&gt;me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;!  I've been doing some family engagement work, some child-specific consultation, and spending a lot of time on my newest project, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://findfamilyservices.com/"&gt;findfamilyservices.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;.  I've also been working with Ray Ratke, former Special Advisor for Children's Services in Virginia.  Ray retired in June and since then, he and I have been developing training curriculum and working with localities to do strategic planning.  Many thanks to Ray for his contribution to my blog this month.  Check it out and let us know what you think: Is the transformation over?  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:x-large;"&gt;Is Transformation Over?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;Raymond R. Ratke  |   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:medium;"&gt;August 5, 2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I’ve gotten that question a lot over the last number of months.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;At first it was in response to the apparent lack of clarity on the part of the new administration in Richmond with regard to the initiative – would they make it a priority or would they not?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;But since I announced my retirement from state service I have repeatedly been asked; does this mean that the Transformation of children’s services is over?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://vafamilyconnections.com/"&gt;Children’s Services System Transformation&lt;/a&gt; began with the idea that we needed to fundamentally change how services are provided to at-risk youth and families to achieve some basic goals – to keep kids and families together wherever possible, to help kids live and be successful in their home community and school, and to assure better life long outcomes for kids and families who come in contact with one of the child serving systems of social services, behavioral health, juvenile justice, and special education.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Achieving these goals appeared to require change in some essential ideas and ingredients in the basic practice of working with kids and families.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Or did it?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;In fact, I believe that the Transformation of human services – for adults, children and families – more accurately involves returning to the roots of our respective professions.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;To a basic belief in and respect for the inherent goodness of people-even when they are at their most challenged and challenging.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Starting where the person or family is.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Actually listening to and developing service plans based on what people say they need – being truly person and family centered.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Finding and building on strengths. Working in true partnership across systems.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Living the ideal that people are best off when services and supports are provided as close as possible to an individual’s home, family, and community.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;Raising, rather than diminishing, hope. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;These ideas are at the heart of the &lt;a href="http://www.vafamilyconnections.com/practice_model.shtml"&gt;Practice Model&lt;/a&gt; that was developed as part of the Children’s Services Transformation.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;They are also at the heart of the “recovery” model in behavioral health, and the principles of services for persons with intellectual and developmental disabilities – self-determination, empowerment, and full participation in the life of the community.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;In fact, I believe they are the principles underlying of all areas of human services.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We have made great progress – truly transformative progress – towards fulfilling the promise of the practice model.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;However, while there are certainly wonderful examples of transformed services in many localities across Virginia, it is also clear that we have a very long way to go.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;On a variety of fronts, the struggle to improve outcomes and help the people we work with lead better lives continues. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Recently, with the best intentions, many people have been congratulating me on my “retirement”.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I have appreciated these good wishes but also admit to a sense of discomfort at the same time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You see, especially at this point in time in the struggle to improve outcomes for Virginia’s most vulnerable citizens, it is not the time to retire – it is not the time to be on the sidelines.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;In fact, it is time for increased action, for renewed dedication to implementing the values and ideals of the practice model, and for each of us to return to the same questions we asked since the beginning – do I care enough?, do I know enough?, am I doing enough?, and am I being persistent enough?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It is time for a renewed sense of urgency and for renewed inspiration. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;In this regard there is much reason for hope – for the power to provide services in a “transformed” way, the power to provide services that truly engage people, that expand hope and improves outcomes - lives in each of us.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Instead of being over, “Transformation” is alive in every locality, every provider and in each person who commits to doing this work in a different way; to be truly person centered, to see the people we have the good fortune to work with as partners rather than adversaries, to stop finding only pathology and to start looking for strengths, to reach across human services agencies to work in true partnership, and to encourage hope and a bold vision of community inclusion and choice for all persons with disabilities.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;“Transformation” won’t be over until this is the rule rather than the exception and the power to achieve this vision rests in each of us.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;    &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Clear policy and direction from leadership at the top is important.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But at its core Transformation has always been about culture and practice change in the actual work with people.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;While my role in influencing state policy is now limited, I am looking for opportunities to remain in the game and to continue to have a positive influence on the efforts of localities and providers to improve the lives of the people with whom they work.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Toward this end, I have recently joined with a loose affiliation of consultants working in Virginia called, “Partners for Transformed Human Services (PaTHS).&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The mission of PaTHS is to &lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;improve life outcomes for people served in human services organizations through partnering with public and private providers, localities, state authorities, families, and advocacy organizations and by providing a comprehensive array of high quality professional consulting services that are based on core values and principles of Transformation. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;I invite you to check out &lt;a href="http://humanservicestransformation.com/"&gt;Humanservicestransformation.com&lt;/a&gt; on the web and I look forward to the chance to join you once again in this very important work.&lt;span style="text-transform:uppercase"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;   &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;   &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-7745369391176295534?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/7745369391176295534/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/08/guest-blogger-ray-ratke-is.html#comment-form' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7745369391176295534'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7745369391176295534'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/08/guest-blogger-ray-ratke-is.html' title='Guest Blogger, Ray Ratke: Is Transformation Over?'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-7223476013871128251</id><published>2010-02-02T14:13:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-02T14:19:16.674-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Lessons From a Farmhouse: Knowing Where to Start</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/S2ikaHlZHZI/AAAAAAAAAAU/I1MRU6qzXi0/s1600-h/IMG_0116.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/S2ikaHlZHZI/AAAAAAAAAAU/I1MRU6qzXi0/s320/IMG_0116.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5433773719041940882" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;In a few weeks my family and I will be moving from our current home (a small, fairly new, rural-suburban place) to an old farmhouse in the country on 50 acres of land.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Before we can live there, the place needs some work: right now it has the ability to handle 60 amps of electricity, only has electrical sockets in one room, has no real working heat source and inadequate plumbing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;The floors are bad: what was once beautiful hardwood has been covered up with layers of other things that are in bad shape.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;One of the upstairs bedrooms has a leak in the ceiling, the floors are crooked and unstable, the stairs a bit shaky.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;The front porch has no railing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;It does have a bathroom—but that was just recently added in the room that used to be the kitchen pantry.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;We are in for it, aren’t we?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Thankfully my job will be packing up this house—the farmhouse will be the place my husband (and a team of other people: electricians, plumbers, floor people, etc.) will spend time until everything is in good enough order.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;(Yes, I said good enough.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;This was not my idea but the reasons we’re doing this are best left for another blog.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;The first time we visited the house I was overwhelmed with how much there was to do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;While I loved the place—it really is beautiful and has spectacular views of the Peaks of Otter—I couldn’t imagine having the time, money, expertise, or energy to do all that would be needed for it to be livable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Then I kept visiting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;The more time we spent in the house, the more we understood about what it needed in order for us to be able to live there, to let our almost-two-year-old son actually sleep in it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;We also began to understand where we should start.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;We knew what our own limits were (like we aren’t okay living in a house with no heat and only enough electricity to have one lamp on.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;We can live with crooked floors and even the leaky ceiling upstairs (for now, we’ll live on the first floor), but the electricity and heat need attention.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Before we move in. Once all this is done, the painting, floor repair, and moving in can finally happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;It is easy to get so overwhelmed by the enormity of something that we are unable to get started.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;It’s true with farmhouses, with families and it’s true with programs or systems.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Families come to us with issues in what seem like all parts of life: they’re involved in the criminal justice system, they are abusing substances, the kids aren’t going to school, there is domestic violence and they are unemployed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Programs are ineffective: we have waiting lists, staff who lack proper training and support, inefficient processes, and poor outcomes (if we measure them at all).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;We begin to think mom is resistant, that our boss just sucks, and that nothing’s going to change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:Georgia, serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;“What looks like resistance is often a lack of clarity.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;This quote was taken from a new book, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Switch&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;, which will hit the shelves later this month.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;It’s written by Chip Heath and Dan Heath and addresses how to change things when change is hard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;The first chapter provides an overview of&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;three surprises about change, one of them being that people aren’t so much resistant as they are unsure what to do next.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;They tell the story about researchers in West Virginia who wanted to persuade people to eat a healthier diet and knew that people were more likely to change behavior when they had clear expectations about what they should do next.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;To tell people to “eat a healthier diet” was not clear enough, they were sure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;There are a million ways to eat healthier, to try to lose weight.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;They decided to start with milk: since most Americans drink milk and since milk is the single largest source of saturated fat in most people’s diets, it was a good place to start.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;They launched a campaign in two communities in West Virginia to convince consumers to switch to 1% or skim milk.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;They tried to change what folks bought, thus changing what they drank and their fat intake.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;It worked—before the campaign, the market share of low-fat milk was 18 percent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;After, it was 41 percent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Six months later it held at 35 percent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;“What looks like resistance is often a lack of clarity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Before this study, we might have looked at these West Virginians and concluded they were the kind of people who don’t care about their health.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;But if they were indeed ‘that kind’ of people, why was it so easy to shift their behavior?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;(p. 9)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:Georgia, serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Summary?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;If you want people to change, show them where to start.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;Me?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;I’m on my way to the ABC store: I hear they have great boxes for packing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;mso-char-type:symbol;mso-symbol-font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:10.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:10.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:10.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-7223476013871128251?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/7223476013871128251/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/02/in-few-weeks-my-family-and-i-will-be.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7223476013871128251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7223476013871128251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/02/in-few-weeks-my-family-and-i-will-be.html' title='Lessons From a Farmhouse: Knowing Where to Start'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/S2ikaHlZHZI/AAAAAAAAAAU/I1MRU6qzXi0/s72-c/IMG_0116.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-7212159944344017745</id><published>2010-01-19T08:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-19T08:40:20.445-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Project Natal:How video games are helping me re-think our systems</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;I am a big fan of Xbox.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I haven’t played it in a long time—in fact, we recently gave ours away.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Of course, about a week after we got rid of it, my husband comes across this video featuring the next best thing for the system, for video games.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s called &lt;i&gt;Project Natal: The Innovation Journey&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He was disgusted that we had gotten rid of ours because this new thing is pretty hip.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Watch the video before you keep reading: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:Helvetica"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_UzcnTYqc4&amp;amp;feature=youtube_gdata"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;;color:#1754A0"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_UzcnTYqc4&amp;amp;feature=youtube_gdata&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;As I watched this, I thought about what we call individualized services for kids and families. Project Natal gives a wild example of how a system (one that may even be more complex than our departments—I know, long shot) can be created that will in fact fit the players and not require that the players fit it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You don’t have to stand on a special board or hold a special controller.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You don’t have to be a certain weight or height.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You just have to be there and the game system recognizes you, reflects you, allows you to play.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It is a real-time connection between a human and a system that puts the player in charge of what happens next.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Do you know how it does this?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Did you hear?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It collects trillions of pieces of data about the player every second—they get to know the player’s movements and measurements in real-time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The game becomes an expert on the player.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Certainly expertise on technology and art and design and math was required to build such a system: but for the system to do its job, it had to figure out how to become an expert on the player.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;“It’s 50% hardware, 50% software.”&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Part of what makes this system unique (and what will help it be successful, making lots of money for someone) is that it’s as much about the player as it is about the system.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The software (the flexible, real-time, changeable, responsive stuff) carries the same weight as the hardware (the more rigid, structural stuff).&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;I believe that our success in improving outcomes for kids and families will depend a great deal on our ability to provide individualized, person-centered, culturally-competent care to folks in our communities.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This video, this gaming system has just given me new ways to think about it and new questions to ask:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;How do we re-form our systems to support professionals who become experts not only on diagnoses and treatment modalities, but on the people they serve?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;How do we create hardware (budgets, policies, for example) that support the software (staffing patterns, training, the day-to-day work) and allow for real-time, meaningful interaction between the consumer and the system, actually reflecting our clients in our work?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;How do we allow families to be in charge but still be responsible with our resources and ensure safety?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt;Project Natal is doing it—with a lot of smart people (with good hair, I might add), probably a dollar or two, and without a lot of fear.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Stay tuned.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;If we end up with this gaming system, I may just have to have a Natal party and you’ll all be invited.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:&amp;quot;Abadi MT Condensed Light&amp;quot;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-7212159944344017745?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/7212159944344017745/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/01/project-natalhow-video-games-are.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7212159944344017745'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7212159944344017745'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2010/01/project-natalhow-video-games-are.html' title='Project Natal:How video games are helping me re-think our systems'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-4414458462690450826</id><published>2009-12-21T09:46:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-21T09:48:07.847-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Sledding, anyone?</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;We got more than a foot of snow this weekend in Bedford—well across Virginia, it seems.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s the beautiful kind of snow that began to stick with the first flake.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s soft and packs together well enough to make a decent snow-person.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s good and deep and kept people trapped in their homes all weekend.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Stuck with me was an almost-two-year old little boy.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We did a lot of reading, cookie-baking, soup-stirring, cartoon-watching and playing.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We tried to ward off boredom by changing scenery--moving from room to room every so often, but our house is small and we ran out of rooms pretty quickly.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We went outside some, but he did not enjoy the snow.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He walked on it like it was some kind of poison.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He tried to escape back into the house by going through the doggie door.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;So much for the ‘baby’s first snow’ photo op.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;The babysitter called Sunday night to remind me about good strategies for getting in and out of her long, windy, gravel, snow-covered driveway and to tell me to bring extra clothes for Owen on Monday morning—they’d be going sledding down the big hill in her front yard.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;After getting stuck and unstuck in her driveway I happily (HUGE smile) dropped him off at her house with all the sledding attire a toddler would need.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I also told her good luck—that he didn’t seem to be the biggest fan of the snow.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She was sure that once he saw the other kids having fun in it he’d join in.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She’s also big on giving kids choices and let me know about his other option if he did indeed refuse to play:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There was a big bucket that he could just stand in and watch while the other kids had fun.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It would keep him out of the snow, but in a safe enough place for her to keep an eye on him.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I could just imagine pulling into her driveway later today and seeing him standing in a big bucket, thumb in mouth, watching everyone else scream in delight.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s pitiful, isn’t it?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;(I also imagined it would be quite funny for some kid to go up behind him and sort of tap him down a hill, turning the safe bucket into a very fun sled.) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;I just got back from a conference celebrating the success of work in Virginia that has been called “The Transformation.”&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;(Learn more at www.vafamilyconnections.org.)&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s the name given to efforts to improve the child welfare and mental health systems, focused mainly around the primary value that kids should grow up in families in their own communities.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The data was telling us that we weren’t doing a great job living up to this value as we’ve had too many kids put in too many places that don’t look anything like families or communities—all in the name of treatment.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;I think lots of folks in the field would say that this transformation work has been good stuff so far—the majority of professionals agree with the reasons for it and with the values it embraces.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There is less agreement the further down the strategic planning table you go: we don’t agree on all of its goals and certainly on its specific strategies.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There is much grumbling underneath the polite clapping in the fancy hotel ballroom as awards are given to the works’ heroes.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;Here’s the thing, though: Enough people are in it—they’re all decked out in their snowsuits, boots on, sleds in hand.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Enough of the right people are heading down the hill together that anyone who doesn’t go is kind of like Owen standing at the top of the hill in the grungy bucket—unsure that the risk of stepping out will really be worth the reward of having gone.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;I’m one of the folks on a sled heading downhill.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I am, as they say, “on board” with the efforts happening statewide.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I also recognize the barriers from multiple perspectives and understand the hesitation of many to jump in.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This work, like sledding, is a make-the-path-as-you-go kind of work that has us only so prepared when we start it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There are lots of trees and rocks and other folks to watch out for on the way.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The cool thing about sledding in groups is that those who go first make a path for the others—a path that ices overnight when left vacant too long, some would say making it more fun.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I'm incredibly thankful for the work done by so many before me and hope that my work will make a nice path for another coming soon behind.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial"&gt;Here’s hoping your ride down the path comes at the right time and pace for you and that the rewards will leave you forgetting that old bucket.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Happy holidays.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-4414458462690450826?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/4414458462690450826/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/12/sledding-anyone.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/4414458462690450826'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/4414458462690450826'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/12/sledding-anyone.html' title='Sledding, anyone?'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-5368159401613953982</id><published>2009-10-29T11:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-29T12:12:18.814-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='system of care'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cultural competence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='football'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hokie'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='service plan'/><title type='text'>Gobble, Gobble: Lessons on Cultural Competency from Lane Stadium</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;I am a Hokie—sort of.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;For those of you unfamiliar with public colleges in Virginia, this means I graduated from Virginia Tech.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It is difficult to attend VT without becoming a football fan but for the two years I spent working on my graduate degree in Sociology, I never stepped foot into Lane Stadium to watch the guys play ball.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I did watch them play from a downtown bar with a beer in my hand from time to time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Apparently this does not “count.”&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;So this year, two years after my graduation, I bought two tickets from my brother-in-law for the Boston College game. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;I did not fit in and here’s why:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;1.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I did not look like a Hokie.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I do not own any Hokie or VT clothing.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I had on a tan t-shirt that I thought coordinated well with the maroon and orange.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Apparently, simply coordinating is not enough.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The dress code is simple: maroon or orange (or both).&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Two of my friends who also attended the game spent a great deal of time trying to convince me to go to the bookstore that day to purchase something—anything with the team colors.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;2.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I did not act like a Hokie.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Sign #1?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I jumped and looked around nervously every time the cannon went off.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I did not know that a cannon would go off every time the home team scored points of any kind.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Our seats were entirely too close to the cannon and the Hokies scored about 600 points that day, it seemed.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;While I was holding my breath looking around for missles, the people around me (in maroon shirts) were waving their arms around and screaming with delight.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It wasn’t until the last quarter that I stopped being scared that we were under some sort of attack when this thing went off.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Sign #2?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I did not know the appropriate times to gobble like a turkey or really even how to gobble like a turkey.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;From time to time throughout the game, people would pull their keys out, shake them and gobble like turkeys.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Maybe it was when we were on defense and we were trying to distract the other team?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Either way, by the time I got my keys out and opened my mouth to attempt it, it was over.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;3.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I do not know the players or the team’s circumstances.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;While others around me were yelling out specific commands to specific players, I had no idea the names, numbers, positions, strengths or weaknesses of anyone on the team.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;They were a group of guys (very big guys) who all had on the same color—that’s about all I could figure out.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Folks around me knew who they needed to beat in order to remain in their standing in their conference.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;They knew which teams would be difficult, which wins would be easy, and the history with each opponent.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I was content to know the current score.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Thankfully I was only a spectator and not the coach or trainer or even a reporter—I would have been useless in any decision-making capacity because I was culturally incompetent. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;Sometimes in our work we mistakenly think of culture as a wide-lens matter: race, gender, social class and country of origin.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Certainly there exist large-scale cultural norms—to use more sports analogy, football players all wear helmets and pads, regardless of their team.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But the real richness lies in expressions of micro-cultures—things we eat, say, and wear, if and how we seek help, if and when we talk about our illness, and when it’s okay to let an outsider in. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;Cultural expressions are like finger prints—a culturally-competent assessment is one that I can read and immediately identify the individual about whom you are writing.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Let’s head back to football season for an example:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;If you lined up football fans in a row wearing team stuff, eating team food, chanting team sayings—you’d know which team they were pulling for fairly easily.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You’d never call a lady in a navy blue sweater and orange chinos with pearls on screaming “Wahoo!” a Hokie, would you?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;(Google “Wahoo” if you do not watch football or do not live in VA).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-family:Tahoma, serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-family:Tahoma, serif;"&gt;Cultural competence in a system of care is about knowing your client’s own cultural norms—not just the demographic and diagnostic stuff that earns a place on service plans and assessments.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;In other words, providing culturally competent services means you provide individualized services, recognizing and building on what is normal for your client in their micro-culture.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;Being culturally competent in your practice will take time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It also means you might have to change your sense of ‘normal’ (I certainly would not gobble like a turkey in any other setting) and accept the position of an outsider.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:9.0pt;"&gt;I stuck out like a sore thumb at the VT game.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I got harassed and made fun of because I was a picture of cultural incompetence.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But I totally made an effort.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;And you know what?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I got invited back for the last home game of the season on one condition&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Tahoma;font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;: I wear an orange shirt and learn how to gobble.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I’m totally game. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-5368159401613953982?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/5368159401613953982/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/10/gobble-gobble-lessons-on-cultural.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/5368159401613953982'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/5368159401613953982'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/10/gobble-gobble-lessons-on-cultural.html' title='Gobble, Gobble: Lessons on Cultural Competency from Lane Stadium'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-7239345575245180716</id><published>2009-09-08T17:26:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-08T17:30:58.509-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tools'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='education'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toolbox'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='energy'/><title type='text'>Kicking the Bucket: How I do training</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;I was walking by our local middle school a few weeks ago and noticed the sign out front.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It said: "Education is not the filling of a bucket, but the lighting of a fire."&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I guess they mean that school is less about obtaining knowledge and more about inspiring minds to learn.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;At first I really thought that sounded great.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Then I decided I did not fully agree: certainly when I send my child to school I want him to have some energy and spirit about him--but I also really hope he learns how to multiply numbers, the history and heroes of the civil rights movement, and what makes the earth go around and around.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;Part of my job as a consultant is to provide training to staff and volunteers who work in the field of human services.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When people attend a workshop that I do, I want three things to happen.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;And seeing that sign at my old middle school just gave me some fun ways of talking about it:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;Fill the bucket:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;No one should pay me money or attention if they attend one of my workshops and walk away knowing nothing more or different than before.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Generally people come into a particular training thinking of a set of concepts or skills they want to know (the bucket) and hoping that when they leave, they'll know them (fill it).&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How do I create a strengths-based service plan for a family in this much trouble?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How can I help a family identify their own informal resources when they've burned so many bridges?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How do I supervise my staff in a way that supports the systems of care principles?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;What does a good outcome report look like?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;Light the fire:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This is sometimes difficult to do when the participants are tired, under-appreciated social workers who, after the training, will return to a mile-high pile of paperwork on their desk that includes some of the worst stories of&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;child abuse and neglect you'll ever hear.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But doing that work better means having the energy and the spark to go back and think differently about it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I have been to many a training where I was inspired while I was in the room and then all the steam ran out as soon as I got back to my car.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Which brings me to my third goal...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;Stock up on tools:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This is an over-used figure of speech, this filling of the toolbox.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It makes sense, though.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I can know how to plant a garden, be inspired and motivated to plant a garden, but if I don't have a shovel, tiller, gloves and some seeds, then I won't get very far.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I want to give people the tools they need to sustain what they learn (the bucket) and their interest (the fire), helping them actually do what they're hearing about in the lecture hall or conference room.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I want to go with them after the training and work alongside them to help make it real every day.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I want the full bucket and the lit fire to linger in real life.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt; A bucket, a fire, a set of tools.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Training, anyone?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-7239345575245180716?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/7239345575245180716/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/09/kicking-bucket-how-i-do-training.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7239345575245180716'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/7239345575245180716'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/09/kicking-bucket-how-i-do-training.html' title='Kicking the Bucket: How I do training'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410641792780336247.post-4374741821784437950</id><published>2009-09-08T16:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-06T07:18:10.698-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='judgement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='human service'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pace'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='form'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clients'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strength'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bedford'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='path'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='running'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='insights'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breathing'/><title type='text'>Hills are always hard: supporting families in the work.</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:LucidaGrande, serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: -webkit-xxx-large;"&gt; &lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:LucidaGrande, serif;"&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;I have been running more these days.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I create these little routes through Bedford and memorize the path as I run it:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;BPC parking lot to Bridge St. to Peaks St., right on Whitfield, through hospital lot, right on Oakwood, right on Longwood, left on North, etc.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;When I’m running I hope that people who drive by in their air-conditioned cars will see what a great human being I am for exercising early in the morning on a rainy day.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;(I also speed up a little and pretend it isn’t hard as they drive by.)&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Then, after the run, I go back over the course with my car to see how far I went that time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;Some insights come up as I run--insights I'll use in a book or workshop or training some day.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;For now, I will summarize some of my thoughts into five running principles that I think are useful in human services work too:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;1.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;I work on my form when the trail is flat and easy.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Good form for me means I'm relaxed, my shoulders are down and not tense, my feet softly hit the pavement, my breath is rhythmic--1 more breath out than in so my strong breath hits on a different leg each time, my arms are low and loose, pushing through but not in a forced way.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It is a waste of time to try to work on form when I'm going up a steep hill in the rain with one of my shoes untied.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Which brings me to #2:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;2.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;While my basic movements are the same for the duration of the run, my form and pace are altered by my environment.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Pick up one foot, the other, swing the arms, breathe in, breathe out, look ahead.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;That's all the same.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When it's raining, I keep my head lower.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When it's down-hill, I sit back a little and shorten my stride.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When it's up-hill, I lean forward and remember to let my arms help boost me up.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When it's flat, I'm loose and rhythmic and readjust everything.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;If I'm ever chased by some sort of axe murderer, I'm sure my form would be wildly different.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;3.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;Hills are always hard.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;There is a particular hill that I keep encountering every time I run.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I have run it over and over and over.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I never walk it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I refuse to walk it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It's long and steep and I always run it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;(Some of this is about me being a determined person, some of it is about vanity--I certainly don't want someone driving by while I’m &lt;i&gt;walking&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt; up the hill.)&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There are some things in life that get easier the more you practice: skateboarding, shooting a foul shot, playing the drums on Rockband for Playstation3, remembering the words to a poem.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But this hill is always hard.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It's not just hard going up--it's also hard when I finish.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I struggle for a few minutes after I'm done every time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Maybe after I run that hill for another month it will not be so bad--but it will always be a hill and hills are always harder than flats.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;4.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;Others don't know where I've been (or where I've yet to go).&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;There's this loop of sidewalk in Bedford that is 2.8 miles long.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This Sunday I ran about 2 miles before I got to the loop and then ran another couple of miles after it.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;As I was finishing it up, I met a man I used to work with--a 60-something attorney for social services, now retired.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He looked very fresh and swift.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I looked…well, not fresh and swift.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Without looking in a mirror I knew that my hair was disheveled, my face was red as a beet, and my shirt soaked through.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I’m sure he thought I was weak for looking this tired after just running a little bit.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But he did not know where I began or how far I had come.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He could only see my sweaty, tired self and think that he might outrun someone 30 years younger.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;5.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;It's worth doing&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;:&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;For the air, for the movement, for the sweat that leaves my body, for the strength that is building in my legs, for the calm that comes from rhythmic breathing, and for the moments in my car afterwards when I see how far I went that time.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt;These concepts are good reminders of how we might approach our work in human services with clients who are struggling in front of others who do not know where they've been or how far they have run.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How many times have they had to run up that same hill that does not get easier?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How many times have we tried to make them change--right in the middle of something so difficult?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Do we recognize that the way they look now may not be the way they are when parts of their life are different--and that some of those parts are outside their control?&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We’d do well to remember that their path is worth the running, that their work won't be wasted and that it is in fact their work, not ours, that gets them safely to the finish line.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:9.0pt;font-family:LucidaGrande"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3410641792780336247-4374741821784437950?l=twochairsolutions.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/feeds/4374741821784437950/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/09/hills-are-always-hard-supporting.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/4374741821784437950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3410641792780336247/posts/default/4374741821784437950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://twochairsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/09/hills-are-always-hard-supporting.html' title='Hills are always hard: supporting families in the work.'/><author><name>Amanda Stanley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16001702132528020413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ibiFjn6xLJE/TFtUBDck-xI/AAAAAAAAAAg/urIBT3AwYOo/S220/logo+twochairs.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
